Reaching out (Dedicated to Virginia Tech’s Cho Seung-Hui)
Wednesday, April 18th, 2007I am assuming that most people have already heard something about the shooting rampage that South Korean Cho Seung-Hui did in the Virginia Tech University in the US. It’s been THE news these past few days and I cannot help but marvel at how American media is spinning the story, as if the Korean guy (may he rest in peace) is the Evil Incarnate.
From interviewing his former roommates who described him as "weird," to talking to his teacher who thought of him "distant," to analyzing his "disturbing" plays, American media has done everything to caricature the fallen twenty-something as the villain of a soap opera of epic proportions. Cho’s profile has been scrutinized to the smallest detail, as if his green card would provide any clue on what the news reports labelled "a student-turned-sociopath."
An FBI agent who was asked what reasons Cho probably had for reacting the way he did, replied that knowing the cause was not important anymore since people like Cho — according to him — are led to commit such acts of violence after going through a series of difficult events in the past. Never mind that Cho’s letter spoke of the perpetual rich-versus-poor plot. He went on a killing spree and he’s a demented jerk.
From where I am standing, the whole story the media is trying to feed us has been exasperating, and even idiotic. While I do not wish to glorify Cho Seung-Hui, I neither would want to put the entire blame on him. All those people who were interviewed, those who said they have had a brush with Cho as a teacher or as a roommate or as a classmate, now assess the South Korean from hindsight. He’s always aloof, they said. He’s always strange.
But I ask now: did they even bother to look at the world from Cho’s perspective? Those who say that they have detected that something was going on with Cho, did they ever take any step to reach out to him? By reaching out I mean not just reporting him to the counseling office or saying an ephemeral hello, but instead trying to talk to him as a friend, as an equal. Did they even regard Cho as one of them, and not just an Asian who came to America to study English?
Two pieces of information struck me as odd. First, at the start of the reporting, no one seemed to know who the shooter was. Then, when it was reported that the he was Asian, everyone readily thought of Cho Seung-Hui as the perfect candidate that fits the profile.
This is how crass, unfeeling and anomic we have become. We identify people by the faults they make and not by their virtues. It is a tragedy of our times that we are taught to classify people, to look for divisions, to search for differences, to make sense of our frailties as human beings by analizing our defects. But it is even more tragic that by doing so, we come to segregate people who only wanted to belong and turn them to our own personal monsters whom we fear, loathe and do not care to understand at all.
Peace be to all the souls claimed by the tragedy. And peace be to Cho.